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How to Set a Goal (and Actually Follow Through With It)


My big goal before I turn the big 4-0 is to read 40 books. You may remember I wrote about it and shared the heck out of that post. That sharing part was pretty important because I knew that accountability would be a key factor in my fulfillment of my #40_by_40 goal.

As it turns out, accountability is one of several factors necessary for setting and accomplishing goals. Vanessa Van Edwards from Science of People has put together a pretty comprehensive article about what it takes stick with a goal.

In her article, The Science of Goal Setting, she lays out 10 steps for goal setting, many of which you might be familiar with, like make it measurable or break it into pieces. What makes her article unique is that it pulls the separate bits and pieces we all know and combines it with some serious soul-searching in the form of emotional temperature and legacy. This means that your goal is built on the foundation of who you are. It is something that really matters to YOU!

I spent some time with her Goal Wheel (seriously, print that thing and get your colored pencils out to make it pretty!). I thought about that personal passions dimension and realized that my book-reading goal fit nicely there. For those of us who are parents, teachers, or in a relationship (or any combination of those), it's really easy to put our personal passions aside, which was clear as I looked at my Goal Wheel. Teaching is a service role, a job that expects a lot of giving without always refilling that bucket. For me, reconnecting with my passion for reading has also had a positive influence on my other pieces of my Goal Wheel. While reading may not be your personal passion, imagine what refilling your bucket might do for your health, profession, or family satisfaction.

Van Edwards also helped me rethink intentions. While setting positive intentions is still something I consider to be a critical piece of my overall well-being, goal setting and intention setting are not exactly the same. Her outcome + process approach is something to consider if you've ever fizzled out on a goal before (hello, every new year's resolution ever). In fact, this outcome + process approach pushed me to look back at my reading goal. I actually had all the pieces in place.

What I hadn't done recently is look back at those process steps to keep myself on track. Van Edwards recommends revisiting your Goal Wheel and the associated goals every couple of weeks, which I think is a piece that I have been missing. My progress toward 40 books had slowed recently, so The Science of Goal Setting refocused me and gave me the tools I needed to get back on track. 

Have you taken your emotional temperature recently?  If not, print off Van Edwards' worksheet and get to coloring. You might find just what you needed to rekindle your own goals or set new ones with the confidence that you have what it takes to accomplish them! 

Let's be accountable to each other. Share one of your goals in the comments or on Twitter with #40_by_40.

3 Secrets to Supporting Innovation



I can find inspiration in some unlikely places. This quote from Just Listen is a prime example. While Sarah Dessen is a lovely writer, I prefer dystopia to suburbia when reading YA, but this line from a decade-old novel for teenage girls has really hits home when I think about how we function in a team.

I hear from teachers about their fear of speaking up in planning meetings, PLCs, or the teacher work room. This is especially true of beginning teachers, who are still learning the norms of their buildings. Teachers--new and veteran-- often keep ideas to themselves, protected from the judgement of colleagues who aren't always good at hiding disapproval.

New ideas often mean change, which is scary. It's even scarier to think that maybe change is necessary. While new and better are not synonymous, teachers often scrunch their noses with suspicion of anything touted as the latest and greatest.

Ever uttered the phrase, "What we've always done is..."? Yeah, me too.  It's a creativity crusher.

Colleagues learn to keep ideas to themselves bypassing judgment. But what they are also bypassing is the opportunity to grow as  professionals, being part of a community, and building relationships.

So how can we support beginning teachers--or any teachers-- who want to try new things?  I think these questions might be part of the secret sauce. 

3 Questions that Support Innovation

If you're a teacher who has an idea to share, spend some time thinking about the answers to the following questions. It will help you determine if your idea has legs and give you some selling points when you talk to colleagues.

If you're working with a beginning teacher, consider asking these questions to the newbie to help develop the idea. It will help the new teacher grow as a reflective educator. These questions are not about judgement; they're about understanding each other's perspectives.

Just working through these questions will support you as a growing professional, who wants to be part of a community and build relationships. 

1. What is the motivation for trying this new thing? 
Knowing the root of an idea can be the key piece of information to help everyone understand. 

2. Who are other folks who have tried this? 
Whether it is a pillar of educational research or the teacher down the hall, knowing that a strategy or lesson has been successful elsewhere can often sway the seemingly unswayable. 

3. What do I have to know about myself for this to be successful? 
New strategies can rarely be effective if the teacher is not mentally prepared for the task.

    Motivation

    Often, just answering the first question can open up a dialogue between teachers. Figure out what itch you're trying to scratch.  There is rarely an easy answer for challenges we face, though we may operate under that belief. The new idea should be one of several that the team of teachers should explore as a solution to the problem. Seize the opportunity for community building as teachers share their own experiences tackling similar problems.  Read more about how we can get in the way of our own creativity.  If the idea still seems viable, move on to the second question.

    Research

    Do I think that every idea you ever put into place has to have a peer-reviewed publication to support it? Nope. Do I think your super innovative way to solve XYZ problem in the classroom is 100% original? Nope

    That's the thing about education. Even when we have these amazing ideas that we've never seen done in a classroom, there's usually something out there that is similar. That's NOT a bad thing! Evidence from professional reading, colleagues, teacher blogs, or wherever reinforces an argument for trying something new. 

    Know your audience. Some teachers are only willing to listen to ideas that have been classroom-tested in similar schools, while others want strategies grounded in valid and reliable research. Plan accordingly. While it may seem like extra work, looking at an idea through the lens of research also helps make a vapor of an idea into something solid to implement. 

    Know Thyself

    You can't argue with Greek philosophers. If the idea has survived the first two questions, it's the third one that will help you determine if you are ready to put into place in your classroom. 

    Being honest about your strengths and weaknesses in a classroom is important. Though that doesn't mean that you must resign yourself to the way things are. Implementing a whole class workshop model or inquiry-based teaching may not go well if classroom management is a challenge. The problem is not in the model, but the setting. Tightening up your management skills and then try something new.

    Whether it is a strong technology skill set or tolerance for noise and movement during a lesson, plan ways to overcome barriers to success a teacher might encounter when trying this new idea. Having a trusted colleague, teammate or mentor can help shine a light on some areas that may interfere with success.

    Holding it In

    “Sometimes it seems safer to hold it all in, where the only person who can judge is yourself.” 
    Putting yourself out there can be a scary place. One of my heroes, Brené Brown wrote a whole book on it. But that doesn't mean it's not worth it.

    Reflect on times in your career where you've pushed yourself to try something new. How did that work for you? Are you holding back something right now because it feels safer?  How's that working for you? Share your stories in the comments. 

    The Most Underrated Professional Development Tool

    If I could guarantee that you could get something good out of every professional development experience you participate in, you'd probably ask me if I'd sold magic beans to Jack recently. I know it sounds like a fairy tale or some gimmick, but I think there is one tool in a teacher's toolkit that is underrated, overlooked, or unrecognized.

    If you're like a typical 21st century teacher, you've probably seen a few memes like this floating around social media. If you've ever said anything like this before walking into a PD session or faculty meeting, you were actually using the best PD tool out there. Just like The Force, it can be used for both good and evil. And this guy is setting himself up for a disastrous professional development session because he has set an intention of being bored.

    Yup, intention is the most underrated professional development tool and until recently, I didn't realize how much power it had.

    Last year, I had beginning teachers share a piece of advice with the next cohort and one teacher's words really struck me. She said, "Go to every induction seminar with an open mind.  You will get out of it what you put in, so have a good attitude and be thankful for the opportunity you have to become a better teacher!”

    That statement stuck with me. Honestly, I reread it multiple times and was so excited to share that with future induction teachers. Of course, I hadn't realized that teacher was speaking as much to me as she was her fellow newbies. She understood intention better than I did.

    You Get Out of It What You Put In

    This bit of wisdom resurfaced a few months later as I sat in a professional development training on coaching with Elena Aguilar in which she began every day with an intention-setting activity. I had never started a meeting with a formalized written intention, but in doing so, I realized how powerful that small moment was. I jotted it at the top of my daily agenda and found myself referring back to it all day.

    One day, my intention was to be present in the training. Seems silly, right?  How could I not be present if my rear end is in the chair?  But I think we all have had the experience of drifting to our to-do list, thinking about what else I need to work on, or even mindlessly scroll through social media or email on your phone. It's that last one--checking email--that sent up a red flag.

    I avoid lengthy phone usage out of respect to the presenter, but I often do a quick email check to see if the world is falling apart without my attention. (Dear Self, An ego check is needed ASAP!) So when I grabbed my phone to check in as usual, my written intention was looking back at me in my  own purple cursive writing.  I set my intention about being focused and, in that moment, it occurred to me that that email check was bigger than being a disengaged participant. I was actually going against my own intention of being present. The phone went back in my bag and I've been a believer in intention ever since.

    Beginning with Intention

    I am certainly no expert, and I still have to make a conscious decision to set positive intentions. Sometimes I forget, but I've learned I can set an intention at anytime, even if it's halfway through a meeting.

    For me, it's a work in progress. One statement I am leaning heavily on during those must-do activities is "I intend to learn something new or expand my understanding." Mostly it's a mental intention, but reflecting on my experience with Elena, I think more written intentions will be helpful to me as well. I've even tried to incorporate some intention setting for participants at the beginning of PD sessions that I am leading.

    What about you? What could be the intention mantra for you? Share in the comments below.

    Want some resources? Here is a great beginning step to setting intentions. Just three things to consider as you create and set your intentions. Tip #1 is the antidote for the grumpy meme above. :)



    40 by 40



    This week is my 39th birthday and, like most people approaching a milestone birthday, I've started making a list of what I'd like to accomplish before the big 4-0. First on my to-do list: Read 40 books by my 40th birthday.

    Is It Possible?

    When I told my husband that, he said, "Altogether? Like in a year?" It's ambitious for me and, apparently, for most Americans. A recent survey reported 12 books to be the average, but about a fourth of American adults hadn't even read one book in the last 12 months. Yikes! I've never officially counted how many books I've read in one year before, but I do try to keep track here

    In my family, I am known as a reader, the bookworm. As much as I love reading, I can't say that I am always reading something. My tendency is to read in binges, often reading a whole series in succession--the year of Harry Potter and Hunger Games weekend come to mind. 

    Parenthood has dramatically changed my reading habits in recent times. Since my daughter was born, I've noticed I'm a more prolific reader when I'm forced to sit and be still with all other entertainment options removed. I read bunches while nursing my child and during that phase where I had to sit in her room until she fell asleep every night. eReaders are a lifesaver in those situations. But now sustained attention to any task with a three-year-old around is a challenge.  Vacations filled with books on the beach are distant memories, too. 

    Knowing that I'm unlikely to invent more time to read, I realized that there would have to some behavior changes on my part if I'm really going to digest roughly one book a week until next December. Austin Kleon's recent newsletter mentioned year-end lists and linked to his post on how he read over 70 books in 2014.  I was inspired! Based on his seven tips and a few of my own ground rules, I've come up with a plan. Here goes...

    Read a Book Instead A. Kleon
    © Austin Kleon

    How I'm Doing 40 by 40 in 10 Easy Steps

     1. Runs from December 2015 to December 2016.
     2. Books can be counted as long as they are finished by my birthday 2016 regardless of start date.
     3. Professional books (nonfiction) and personal books (fiction and nonfiction) count.
     4. Children's books do not count, unless they are chapter length.
     5. Format is irrelevant - eBooks, audiobooks, traditionally bound are all fair game.
     6. Books before Facebook. Limit social media and read a book instead.
     7. Go to bed earlier and read. See also #6.
     8. Travel with books. Always.  See also #6.
     9. Talk about books and ideas more and less about people. See also #6.
    10. Remember this is not a chore. You actually like reading. A lot. It's like being forced to eat ice cream and wear soft pants every day. Enjoy it, dadgummit! 

    Ready, Set, Go! 

    I've already picked out a few books to get started with and set my iPhone lock screen to Austin Kleon's "Read a Book Instead". I imagine I'll hit a wall somewhere along the way, so give me some encouragement and maybe a book recommendation or two along the way.  What book would get you out of a reading slump? Tell me on Twitter with #40_by_40:

    Tweet: Hey Amber, read this: INSERT TITLE HERE #40_by_40



    I'll keep you posted on the progress. Happy reading!

    A World Without Teachers


    A big portion of my job relates to teacher evaluation--not a topic that incites joy when I mention it--especially to teachers. Some might think teacher evaluation is about a checklist of things teachers ought to be doing in the classroom. And to be fair, it wasn't all that long ago that evaluation really WAS a checklist. But evaluation should be more than a list of dos and don'ts for it to be valid and meaningful.

    What I often hear from teachers is that typical evaluations can't measure the real impact a teacher has on a student, and I definitely understand that perspective. The Jubilee Project made this inspiring video called a World Without Teachers that touches on that intangible impact teachers have on students--the things you might not see until many years after a student has left a teacher's classroom. As one woman in the video states, "I feel like teachers are — besides our parents — the first people we meet who shape who we become."




    There are a lot of ways to see how effective teachers are at their jobs and I think teachers deserve to regular feedback to inform their growth and development. But beyond that, I hope someone thinks of you the way these video participants think of some of their former teachers. It would be tough to be that teacher for every student, but I hope you can be for at least one. Now, go grab a tissue and hit play.

    Happy New Year!

    As a teacher, my calendar always operated a little differently than most grown-ups. My internal calendar ran August to the first week of June. The rest of June and July existed outside of the constructs of time. Ask a teacher what day of the week it is during the summer and she probably can't tell you! I have a friend who calls herself Summer-Kelly during those precious weeks between school years. Summer-Kelly is her alter ego who gets to stay up late and eat lunch with adults in restaurants.

    Before someone gets all "must be nice to have summers off" snarky, let me clarify that not attending school each day doesn't mean we aren't doing loads of school-related things--planning, reading, taking classes, cutting out mountains of laminating for next year. But when you get to do that in soft pants or while binge-watching Netflix, you might forget that you 're doing it for zero summer pay.

    So when I moved from a school to the district office, my summer alter-ego pretty much disappeared. This is a year-round gig, so I have to save Summer-Amber for Fridays and weekends like the rest of the grown-up world. That also meant that my internal calendar had to add June and July back into the mix. I'm still living a hyphenated year (Hello 2015-2016!), but my new year starts in June now instead of August.

    Of course, ringing in the new year wouldn't be complete without New Year's Resolutions, right? For me, I realized that I wanted a better way to track my work flow. In a classroom, lesson plans are a pretty efficient way to track what's happening during the day. Even in the classroom, I used sticky notes and lists to keep track of my things to do, but that system wasn't nearly as effective in my new role. Thanks to Pinterest, I found Bullet Journal.



    I've officially been at it for one whole day now--a record for keeping a New Year's Resolution in my book! Really, I am posting about my attempt at Bullet Journal-style organization as a way to keep me working at it. I think it's actually a pretty good system for me because it's totally flexible and doesn't require special tools or anything that stands as a barrier to getting started. My plan is to post my progress every so often to see how it's working for me.

    I think for most teacher leaders, keeping up with the stuff that's not teaching kiddos is the hardest to manage. If that rings true for you, maybe Bullet Journal is good for you. What have you tried -successfully or not- to manage your time?

    Gandhi Didn't Say That (or My Life's Philosophy is Based on Lies)


    "Be the change you wish to see in the world."
    -Mahatma Gandhi

    These words speak to me deeply on both a personal and professional level. I like improving, fixing, refining, perfecting. Whining and complaining are pointless to me unless it part of your path to exploring solutions. If you want things to be different, be different yourself. It's this notion that I have built my teaching career around.

    Aaaand, it turns out to be a bunch of hooey. Or at least, Gandhi never actually said it. So what's a girl to do when she finds out her mantra is not the wisdom of a great thinker, but likely the invention of some bumper sticker printer?  If you're me, you go ahead and try to be the change you wish to see in the world anyway.

    Here's the thing, whether the quote is attributed to Gandhi or Garfield, the sentiment rings true. I'm not going to change the world by complaining, expecting others to change, or just sitting on my duff. So this past week, I did two things to push myself into being the kind of teacher I want to see in my schools, the kind I want my daughter to have--the kind that takes risks.

    First, I joined an unconference called EdCamp QC. It's professional development flipped on its ear. Instead of a panel-selected conference agenda, the participants walked in, suggested topics, and the agenda was set on the spot in about 30 minutes. BAM! It's pretty powerful to be in a room full of teachers (on a SATURDAY!!) who chose to be there and get to choose what to talk about. Game changer. While it wasn't the most amazing, magical, unicorns-and-monster trucks PD I've ever done, it has helped me think differently. And shifting my thinking IS amazing stuff.

    After my EdCampQC experience, I felt gutsy enough to jump into the deep end of Twitter. I had a partner in my madness, so Megan and I co-hosted a Twitter Chat (#SCsnowchat) on our most recent school snow day. Wow--what a wonderful way to connect with teachers--both friends and strangers. It's something I will definitely be adding to my PD repertoire.

    So maybe Gandhi didn't tell me to do it, but I am grateful for that piece of bumper sticker wisdom for pushing me to try new things, being willing to fail, and growing as an educator. Because that's the change I wish to see in the world.

    How about you?  What message is sticky noted to your mirror or monitor?  Share your bumper sticker widsom with me by clicking the Tweet button below!

    Tweet: Hey Amber, read this: INSERT TITLE HERE #40_by_40

    A Love of Swimming


    Tyler Knott Gregson poem

    Written as a part his Typewriter Series, Tyler Knott Gregson's poem is as true for teaching as it is for anything someone felt inspired to begin. Teaching certainly has its fair share of tasks that keep us treading water, working hard for very little progress.  It is exhausting and makes us long for an ending. How many Facebook posts do you see with teachers counting down the days until the next break? Don't get me wrong--I am among those who look forward to time off to spend with family and friends and a reprieve from the daily tasks of school and work.

    But there is a difference between escaping something and recharging your batteries. 

    Even 16 years after joining the profession, I look forward to coming back after a little R&R. Granted, I don't say that out loud too often--people look at you funny if you say you like your job--but I can still find the thread that connects me back to why I became a teacher. 

    So as you prepare for an upcoming break, think about Gregson's poem, Reflect on why you became a teacher in the first place, whether you made that decision months, years or decades ago, May breaks be a time of rest and reflection where you can remind yourself how much you have always loved to swim. 

    What Escalators and Broken Pencils Have in Common

    © Benjamin Watson 
    Take a look at this brief video, just first 1:40 really. Listen carefully to the words to see if you hear anything familiar.



    In the world of Cognitive CoachingSM, this stuck-on-the-escalator mentality is called other-directed. The folks who take the initiative to solve their own problems are considered self-directed. As I learned about this idea of other-directed vs. self-directed, I thought a lot about both how this affects both teachers and students.

    The escalator clip made me think about students who don't know what to do when their pencils break. How can they not solve this problem?!?!  But then I remembered that procedure I had about no sharpening pencils while I was teaching...or no talking while I was talking...or staying in their seats. I'd pretty much eliminated all the possible ways to solve the broken pencil problem. All they had left to do was either prepare 20 pencils every morning or wait for me to fix it. I unconsciously sent the message that they must wait for me to do anything and then got frustrated when they followed my directions.

    Consider This: Is there a way I could build a classroom environment that allows students to develop as problem-solvers, but still keeps a community with rules and procedures?

    What about self-directed professionals? In my experience, those who are seen as teacher leaders are probably self-directed. They are often the first to implement innovative strategies in their classrooms, read extensively in areas they would like to improve and seek out answers to solve the challenges they face in their classrooms. Initiative is often regarded as a trait of effective leadership, so it's no coincidence that these self-directed teachers become the leaders in a school.

    It's important to note that these two states are neither ubiquitous, nor fixed.

    It's Not Universal Across All Domains: When you watched this video, did you immediately think of someone you know?  I did. But after a little reflective thinking, I saw some other-directed habits of my own. Being other-directed in one area doesn't mean you can't be self-directed in another. Just ask my fitness trainer, who will be the first to tell you I am very other-directed at the gym. I'm not doing anything until she says so!

    Consider This: In what ways might other-directedness get in the way of my personal or professional goals?


    It's Not a Permanent State: This means that a person can become more self-directed. In my fitness example, self-directedness might look like a working out beyond the times scheduled with a trainer. But what would it take for that to happen?  From my trainer's perspective, it takes education. She shares recipes online, shares the impact of fitness and nutrition on our bodies, and gives me quick exercises I can do when I am not with her. By building my understanding, she hopes to develop my ability to take my own lead.

    Consider This: Think about barriers to self-directedness in a particular area. What might it take to move towards self-directed behavior for yourself, your students, or your colleagues? 

    Knowing that it is possible to become more self-directed means there is room for growth as teachers and as students. How does the school or classroom foster that? Authors Arthur L. Costa and Robert J. Garmston think feedback is crucial to the process. What feedback do you give students to help them become self-directed problem solvers? As a professional, do you feel that being self-directed is appreciated and valued in your school?

    Share your thoughts in the comments. Read more about Costa and Garmston's five forms of feedback here.